beautiful

okay, so i have a few theories about why the world is the way it is, but there are some things that i just can't seem to come to terms with. the first one being the expectations that are made for girls; in the media, and even coming from guys.
SERIOUSLY?? why do we have to be stick thin to be pretty? why is a person only considered "hot" if they're tan and skinny? cause those are the only girls that a guy would wanna "do". but if you think about it...okay maybe you shouldn't think about it.....but WHY are those the only girls who guys want anything to do with? there are obviously those girls who are pretty, but just don't have the right tan, or don't wear those expensive clothes, who only get noticed when a guy needs something or when he has noone else to talk to? i know for a fact there are some totally nice guys out there, but they are few and far between, let me tell you.
anyway, why do we just let the world tell us what to think and how to feel? i know that when i meet a guy who i think is really attractive, then get to know him and find out that he is not even a COMPLETE jerk, but maybe just KINDOF a jerk, i still find him less attractive.
why do we judge people on their THINGS? like their car, or their clothes, or their purse, or their house? i mean, those are THINGS that those people probably won't have in like 5 years, let's be real. then again, i can see where people are coming from if they treat those people with more respect because they obviously worked hard to get where they are to HAVE those nice things, but then again, you really can't judge people until you get to know them.
let's all try to be a little nicer, mmmmmmmmkay?! k. :)